DISFELLOWSHIP !!
WHAT DOES THE BIBLE REALLY SAY? Should people be put out of the Church for disagreeing on the meaning of a Biblical verse or a policy of administration? Are Church members allowed by God to think for themselves without the threat of excommunication? What did Christ mean when He said: "....If he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican?" Why should someone be disfellowshipped? If someone is excommunicated, are the ministers and other Church members NEVER to talk to that person again? All these questions and others will be answered in this in-depth study article. The truth about the subject that most do not want to talk about....DISFELLOWSHIPPING, may not be as you have thought or been taught. But the word of God will make the truth PLAIN! by Keith Hunt Regrettably, there may be a time when a person has to be disfellowshipped from having fellowship with the members of the Church. Paul speaking to the Church at Corinth wrote: "...and you are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that has done this deed might to TAKEN AWAY FROM AMONG YOU........But now I have written unto you NOT TO KEEP COMPANY, if any man that is called a BROTHER be a.........WITH SUCH A ONE NO NOT TO EAT" (1 Cor.5:2,11). He goes on to say in verse 13, "....Therefore PUT AWAY from among yourselves that wicked person." Writing to the Thessalonians Paul said: "Now we command you, brethren, that you WITHDRAW YOURSELVES from every BROTHER that walketh disorderly and if any man obey not our word by this epistle, note that man, and have NO COMPANY with him....." (2 Thes.3:6,14). Writing to Titus, Paul said: "A man that is an heretic after the first and second admonition REJECT" (Titus 3:10). Then we have the words of Christ on this matter of putting someone outside the fellowship of the Church. Speaking about the person who is obviously walking or living in an unrepentant manner, Jesus said: ".... If he neglect to hear the Church, let him be unto you as an heathen man and a publican"(Mat.18:17). What Christ meant by that statement in specifics we shall look at in more detail later. Suffice to say now, it does mean that a person may have to be excommunicated from fellowship with the Church. THE METHOD TO DISFELLOWSHIP Christ did not leave His Church in any doubt about HOW to disfellowship someone if it was necessary. Anything Paul wrote on this matter would not have contradicted the outline given by Jesus. Paul was taught by Christ (Gal.l:11-12). When Paul wrote on disfellowshipping of a brother/sister he gave the overview of the subject NOT the specific details of how it was to be accomplished. The one, two, three steps that were to be taken leading up to disfellowshipping, if the person would not listen to the Church, was laid down by the Lord Jesus, in Matthew 18. Starting in verse 15, we read: "Moreover, if thy brother shall trespass against you..." (a one to one, member to member, or minister to minister, or minister to member, or member to minister), continuing, "go and tell him his fault between YOU and HIM alone: IF he shall hear you, you have gained your brother." When a serious matter, let me emphasize the word serious (Jesus is not talking about getting upset with your brother because they do not open the car door for you when you have your arms full of parcels), when a serious matter arises between BROTHERS in Christ, it is FIRST of all to be a one to one meeting to discuss the problem. As God is love(1 John 4:8) and brothers in Christ are to love each other (1 John 4:7), this meeting should be carried out in deep Godly love, with humility and prayer, and remembering the words of Paul, ".....lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway" (1 Cor.9:27). There can be no lynch mob action, no going behind a person's back to some supposed higher Church authority to have this or that other person disfellowshipped - no three or four getting together to see if someone else will do what you PERSONALLY should be doing; that is, discussing the matter with the particular individual involved with you and the problem. It must first be ONE TO ONE. Any other way is not scriptural and is not following the way Christ gave us. It is therefore contrary to the way of the Lord. In most cases the problem will be solved this way. If it is not, Christ went on to instruct us: "But if he will NOT hear you, THEN take with you one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established" (verse 16). If the person in the wrong, AFTER OBEYING THE ABOVE INSTRUCTIONS, still will not listen, Jesus said: "tell it unto the Church...." Bring it before the Church as a whole, the ministers as a whole, the members, and let them give their decision on the matter. Christ did not say tell it to the ONE individual (if there indeed was ever to be one) who is head of the Church and let him disfellowship this person. Christ said, "......But if he neglect to hear the CHURCH, let him be unto you as an heathen man and a publican" (verses 15-17). Paul said to the CHURCH, not just the ministers at Corinth(the book of 1 Corinthians was written to the Church - verse 2) "......Do not YOU judge them that are within" (1 Cor.5:12). Paul was writing concerning the case of open incest being done within the Church, and he tells them THEY - the CHURCH - had the right to decide and disfellowship that person so sinning. As Christ said, if the sinner will not hear on a one to one basis, then it must be two or three to one. If he/she still refuses to hear, then the CHURCH as a whole have the right to speak, and if he will not hear the Church, then and ONLY THEN can they be disfellowshipped. ANY OTHER METHOD IS CONTRARY TO THE TEACHING OF CHRIST. And remember, all of this is to be done in LOVE. Disfellowshipping of a person must come finally from the CHURCH - not from an individual - and only after the correct procedure given by Jesus has been carried out. One minister is not the Church. The ministers as a whole are not the Church. They are only PART OF the Church. The CHURCH(all called out ones. Every member constitutes the Church of that particular congregation) must have the case presented before it, and judgement then made. If the person involved will not listen to the Church, then he or she can be put out of its fellowship. How simple it is when one will just BELIEVE and OBEY the words of Christ. I have known and talked to some leaders of various religious organizations that follow the instructions of Jesus regards this subject, for the most part, when done in love, it brings about the desired repentant attitude from the person overtaken in a sin. WHY DISFELLOWSHIP SOMEONE? Did Christ give the Church the right to put a PERSON out of its fellowship so the Church could delight in so doing, so it could have an "holier than thou" attitude? No! Indeed NO! For the Church to have to disfellowship someone it should be a VERY SAD occasion. Deep sorrow should be felt by all. Why then is it sometimes necessary? Paul gives us the answer: "To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh" - to put them outside the spiritual protection of the Church - "that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus" (1 Cor.5:5). Hopefully, they will repent and turn again to God and walk in the right path. The second reason for disfellowshipping is to keep the Church from corrupting into OPEN SIN against God: "......Know you not that a little leaven(type of sin) leaveneth the whole lump" (1 Cor.5:6). In the case in which Paul was talking about in 1 Cor.5, a member was having sexual intercourse with his father's wife(verse 1). This was directly breaking the law of God. The Church knew about this man's activity, and by doing or saying nothing they were then condoning it(verse 2,6). Paul could see that if something was not done, soon others in the Church would be practicing open sin, until the whole Church would be corrupted. The example in 1 Corinthians 5 leads us to our next question. What would the reasons be for having to disfellowship someone? REASONS FOR DISFELLOWSHIPPING Has the Church the right to disfellowship someone because he/she humbly disagrees with a point of doctrine or understanding of a verse of scripture? Should a person be put out of the Church for not agreeing fully with certain policies or ways of administration? When you become part of the Church, do you give up the right to "think for yourself"? Is your thinking to be all done for you by the ministers? Your Bible says you are to be servants of God. You are to give yourself as a living sacrifice to God(Rom.12:1). You are to have Christ's MIND in you(Phil.2:5), not the mind of some other man. You are bought with Christ's blood and are not to become the servants of MEN(1 Cor.7:23). Your salvation is only answerable to God(Rom.14:4,10-12). You do not stop "thinking for yourself" when you become a Christian. Nobody should ever be disfellowshipped for what he SINCERELY believes or because he wants to "think." If he has a genuine disagreement over doctrine, policies, or ideas, he should always feel that he can, in the right attitude, air his thoughts and be heard, listened to and considered. We have already seen an example in 1 Corinthians 5:1-7, an example of incest in the Church that was not just a private personal sin(we all have those - Rom.7:13-15; 1 John 1:8-10) but a sin that could effect the whole Church and lead people into outright disobedience towards God. Paul gives us other reasons for having to disfellowship someone in verse 11. "But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a FORNICATOR, or COVETOUS, or an IDOLATER, or a RAILER, or a DRUNKARD, or an EXTORTIONER, with such a one no not to eat." Let's apply the principle of the case of incest we've already noted to these other sins that Paul mentions. FORNICATION: A young man or woman in the Church starts having sexual relations with another young person of the Church. This relationship is regular. Word gets out in the manner that such things do become known by many in the Church, but nobody says anything to them. Soon the offenders could have set the example for others to do the same. If the instructions of Mat.18 were not followed, open practice of sexual immorality would spread through the Church. If the couple would not repent of "sleeping around" as we call it today, then the Church as a whole could make the decision to disfellowship them. COVETOUS: An individual starts to covet say the "office" held by another in the Church. He does not have any office, or not the one he wants to have. The office of deacon, board member, or minister that HE WANTS is held by another. So he starts to gossip and slander the person holding that office. He says ugly lies about them, starts assassinating their character. He gets others to listen and poisons their minds. This kind of talk becomes his life style. This covetous manner could effect the whole Church, unless the instructions of Mat.18 were followed. IDOLATER: Let's put ourselves back with Paul and the Church at Corinth. The members had just recently come out of pagan worship to serve the true God in "spirit and in truth." One Sabbath in walks someone with a statue of say, DIANA(a false pagan god, that was really no god) and sets it up in the meeting place and proceeds to pray before it. The following Sabbath the original member is joined by another member in praying before this idol. As the weeks go by more and more join in with the idol worship. Can you see where all this would lead? Paul says the Church does have the right and the authority to judge such a person who would want to start such idolatry in the Church. Do you see the principle? Can you understand what Paul is saying here in 1 Cor.5? A RAILER Would be someone who openly wants to stand up in the Church meetings and argue the word of God in an unbecoming attitude, shouting at or against other members or the ministry, maybe using a foul tongue or slander(see the Amplified Bible). A DRUNKARD Would be a member who turns up at Church functions drunk, and does it often as a habit. Maybe they are living as a drunkard around their home and causing all kinds of trouble. AN EXTORTIONER Would be a person who is a swindler or robber or siphoner of Church funds, or money from his place of employment. It is a way of life with him, possibly encouraging others to do the same. Paul is here, in these verses of 1 Cor.5, talking about persons who LIVE/PRACTICE a lifestyle that is contrary to the commandments of God, and want to bring it into the Church, wanting all to allow them to so live. They are not repentant of their actions. Paul is NOT talking about people who are loving God with all their mind and heart, who are wanting to obey God's law, who are fighting sin within themselves, but honestly and sincerely do not agree with the Church's teaching on a given doctrine or verse. Paul is not talking about people who disagree on certain Church policy or ways of administration, but have the true spirit of God within them. He is NOT talking about one minister disagreeing with another minister on how things should be done. Paul IS talking about a lifestyle - the WAY a person LIVES contrary to the plain easy to understand COMMANDMENTS of God, and HOW THAT WAY could effect the whole Church by leading many others into open sin. Did Paul ever have any differences of 'administration' opinions with other ministers? Oh, indeed he did! If you turn to Acts 15:36-41 you will read how Paul and Barnabas had a difference of opinion, and, "......the contention was so sharp between them that they departed asunder one from the other.." (verse 39). Now, did Paul try to have Barnabas disfellowshipped? Did Paul run off to the apostles at Jerusalem to get them to put Barnabas "out of the Church"? Or, did Barnabas run to Peter with a few other ministers and try to have Paul excommunicated? NO! There is not one word anywhere that even suggests they tried to do any of that. Both men knew they were called to do the work of the Lord. This heated difference was not over basic fundamental doctrines of God, or the practice of unrepentant sins on someone's part. It was a difference of opinion on "who should go with them to do the work" - a difference in the area of Church Administration in which there is no "thus says the Lord." On another occasion Paul DISAGREED with what Peter was DOING - PRACTICING in his life. Paul had the God given right and freedom to stand up to Peter and tell him he was WRONG(Gal.2:11-14)! Notice two things about this incident: FIRST - Paul obeyed Mat.18:15. He went to Peter directly and withstood him in his wrong way. He did not "gang up" on him and go to someone else to have him corrected or put out of fellowship. SECOND - Peter did not condemn Paul for doing what he did. Peter knew it was Paul's given right to exercise correction when needed. Peter did not try to have Paul disfellowshipped over what he did. It is also interesting to note and remember that Peter was with the Church from its beginning. Peter was one of the Church's founding members and prominent persons. And here was Paul, a relative newcomer to the ministry, standing up to Peter's face and declaring he was wrong - and he WAS! None claimed that anyone got in a "bad attitude" or had "disrespect for authority," or "disrespect for one of the original apostles" and so should be disfellowshipped. Putting someone out of the Church because an INDIVIDUAL claims that some member is in a "wrong attitude" (when they are probably not), or is reading literature from another church group, or not "agreeing" with all the fine print of administration, is not following the teachings of the head of the Church - Jesus Christ. This kind of disfellowshipping is from the doctrines of demons. It is Satanic - it is not of God. There are churches that teach and practice this cultic dictatorial way of correction and disfellowshipping. Further, the idea that when someone has been disfellowshipped, the ministers/elders and congregational members are NEVER to speak to or have any communication whatsoever with that person, is also just as Satanic, as we shall now proceed to see. "AS A HEATHEN MAN" AND LOGIC Some groups take the words of Christ and Paul, such as: "....if he neglect to hear the Church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican.......that he that has done this deed must be taken away from among you.......with such a one no not to eat .......that you withdraw yourselves from every brother that walks disorderly.......and have no company with him...." to mean that the Church members are not only to not keep company in ANY WAY with the disfellowshipped, but they are not even to SPEAK to or have any communication at any time with that person. Members of such groups that teach this form of excommunication will even avoid the meeting of former members on the street by quickly walking the other way, or crossing the street. Disfellowshipped members are treated as if they were carrying the death plague itself, a plague that would kill instantly upon coming within twenty feet of the one time member. Is this how you should treat the disfellowshipped member? Was this the way Christ and Paul wanted you to act towards those the Church had to correct and discipline? God says to us, " Come let us reason together "(Isa.1:18). So, let's first use our logical reasoning powers God gave us to apply this teaching of some to everyday circumstances. A wife finds herself married to a disfellowshipped husband one day. Her church teaches that you are not to eat with, keep company with, or speak to such a person any more. God still says you are one flesh and his wife. What a dilemma! What a PARADOX! I have known of instances where this has happened. The church group involved will usually allow their teaching at this point to change. Yet the same allowance may, or may not, be applied to a father-son, or mother-daughter SITUATION. Let's take another example. Two families live next door to each other. One family is "put out of the church" (we shall assume in this example it is for correct and just reasons). The other family now finds itself in the most uncomfortable situation of avoiding, not speaking to the other family. Maybe they have children who play together, or to make it a little more complicated, a son and daughter of each family are engaged to be married. Still add another twist - only the husband of one family is disfellowshipped. The church will allow his wife to communicate with him but the church neighbors cannot. They must avoid and not speak to the one, while showing brotherly fellowship with the other. Two men work alongside each other in a factory, shop, or what have you. They are members of the same church, until one is disfellowshipped. For the job to be done both men have to work as a team and communicate together. According to the teaching of the church, the man in good standing is not to have company with, or talk to, or eat meals together in the lunch room, with the disfellowshipped man. You figure that one out! Maybe the one disfellowshipped is the owner or foreman of the company the other member works for, or the church member is the right-hand man of the man excommunicated. Maybe the man "put out" is the right-hand man of the church member. The situations are endless! Reason and logic should tell you that such understanding of Christ's statement "let him be unto you as a heathen" is erroneous. But God's word leaves us in no doubt about how to treat the disfellowshipped. The groups who preach the "avoiding, not speaking to" doctrine have THREE scriptures they find very hard to explain, if not impossible. Here they are from the AMPLIFIED BIBLE. THREE IMPORTANT VERSES "Brethren, if any person is overtaken in misconduct or sin of any sort, you who are spiritual - who are responsive to and controlled by the spirit - should set him right and restore and reinstate him, without any sense of superiority and with all gentleness, keeping an attentive eye on yourself, lest you should be tempted also" (Gal.6:1). Paul is NOT here talking about brethren going about prying into each other's misconduct or personal sins, so we can set each other right. The word of God nowhere teaches that idea. The "faults" we are to confess to each other spoken about in James 5:16 are physical faults - sickness or physical infirmities - so we can pray for each other and be healed (v.13-15). Our spiritual sins we confess to God(Heb.4:15-16; 1 John 1:8-9; Mat. 6:9-12). Sins, errors, offenses, we commit against each other should be dealt with personally and individually as Jesus gave us instruction in Matthew 18:15. We are certainly not to "go looking for" the speck of dirt in our brother's eye, as there could very well be a huge plank in our own - Mat.7:3. Paul IS here teaching about a brother who is overtaken (becomes taken over by a life of misconduct) - as the person practicing incest in 1 Cor.5, which may lead to the Church having to put them out of its fellowship, or his voluntary leaving the Church, and what WE (ministers and/or members) should then try to do to restore them to repentance and the Church. The compilers of the AMPLIFIED Bible understood what Paul was saying. The CHURCH'S responsibility is, with humility and gentleness, to try to set him right and RESTORE and REINSTATE him to the fellowship again. This then requires that the Church WORK WITH and still COMMUNICATE WITH such an individual. The idea to "avoid and never speak to" a disfellowshipped or former brother/sister is the complete antithesis of Paul's teaching to the Christians in Galatia. The noted MATTHEW HENRY'S COMMENTARY on the Bible has this to say on Galatians 6:1. "We here are taught to deal tenderly with those who are overtaken in a fault. THEY WHO ARE SPIRITUAL; by whom is meant, not only the ministers (as if none but they were to be called spiritual persons), but other Christians too; especially those of the higher form in Christianity. These must RESTORE SUCH AN ONE WITH THE SPIRIT OF MEEKNESS. Here observe: 1. The duty we are directed to - to restore such. We should labor, by faithful reproofs and pertinent and seasonable counsels, to bring them to repentance. The original word 'katarizo' signifies TO SET IN JOINT - as a dislocated bone is. Accordingly, we should endeavor to set them in joint again, to bring them to themselves, by convincing them of their sin and error, persuading them to return to their duty, comforting them in a sense of pardoning mercy thereupon, and - having thus recovered them - confirming our love to them. 2. The manner wherein this is to be done - WITH THE SPIRIT OF MEEKNESS; not in wrath and passion, as those who triumph in a brother's fall, but with meekness - as those who rather mourn for them. Many needful reproofs lose their efficacy by being given in wrath; but when they are managed with calmness and tenderness, and appear to proceed from a sincere affection for them(and concern for their welfare) they are likely to make due impression. 3. A very good reason why this should be done with meekness - CONSIDERING THYSELF, LEST THOU ALSO BE TEMPTED. We ought to deal very tenderly with those who are overtaken in sin, because we none of us know but it may sometime be our own case." The SECOND TEXT we need to study and understand is 2 Thessalonians 3: 6,14-15. The Amplified Bible translates these verses as: "Now we charge you, brethren, in the name and on the authority of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Messiah, that you withdraw and keep away from every brother (fellow believer) who is slack in the PERFORMANCE OF DUTY and is DISORDERLY, LIVING as a shirker and not walking in accord with the traditions and instructions that you have received from us But if anyone (in the church) refuses to obey what we say in this letter, take NOTE of that person, and do not associate with him; that he may be ashamed. DO NOT REGARD HIM AS AN ENEMY, but simply ADMONISH and WARN him as (being still) a brother" (emphasis mine). Now there are possibly TWO explanations of what Paul is here saying to the Church at Thessalonia: 1. A self-imposed censorship by the people of the Church towards those whom Paul says to note - a censorship then WITHIN the Church. 2. A censorship by the Church - a DISFELLOWSHIP. Possibly BOTH views are here meant to be understood, BUT whichever we want to side with, the CONCLUSION as to what the Church must DO is the SAME for either case. Let us note what KIND of individual Paul is telling us to censure. The Matthew Henry's Commentary says: "There were some who walked disorderly, not after the traditions they received from the apostles (v.6). Note, the King James version says 'received of US' - not just Paul, but others also. Paul did not set himself up as chief apostle or pope of the Church of God They did not live regularly, or govern themselves according to the rules of Christianity in particular, there were among them IDLE PERSONS AND BUSYBODIES (v.11). This the apostle was so credibly informed of that he had sufficient reason to give commands and directions with relation to such persons, how they ought to behave, and how the Church should act towards them. There were some among them who were IDLE, NOT WORKING AT ALL, or doing nothing. It is a great error, or abuse of religion to make it a cloak for idleness, or any other sin. There were BUSYBODIES among them: and it would seem, by the connection, that the same persons who were idle were busybodies also, most commonly, those persons who have no business of their own to do, or neglect that and busy themselves in other men's matters.......Busybodies are disorderly walkers. The apostle warns Timothy(1 Tim.5:13) 'to beware of such as learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house, and are not only idle, but tattlers also, and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.' " The persons Paul was telling the Church to censor were LIVING, PRACTICING, a life style WITHIN the Church that would have profoundly bad influence on the membership. It was a corrupt way of LIVING they were promulgating. It was a lifestyle that could be put alongside the fornication, covetous, idolater, drunkard, extortioner, of 1 Corinthians 5. TWO FORMS OF CENSORSHIP 1. Censorship within the Church This view is taken from verse 14 as to be understood that what is said does not necessarily mean to disfellowship. The language used by Paul is not as strong as he used in 1 Cor.5:1-13. The words "note that man" is NOT synonymous with "disfellowship that man" or "put him away." The Greek word here used for "note" means simply to DISTINGUISH, become acquainted, recognize who the idle busybodies are, and once you have recognized them - STAY OUT OF THEIR WAY - do not be a "buddy-buddy" with them, do not have them as close friends. 2. Censorship with-out the Church - disfellowship If verse 14 is taken to mean Paul is here saying to disfellowship these persons, there is still NO CONTRADICTION with the rest of God's word and Christ's instruction of Matthew 18. Paul is writing to the brethren (v.6) - the CHURCH, not to a man or men as head of the Church. The brethren as a WHOLE - the CHURCH at Thessalonia would have to follow Jesus' instructions of Matthew 18 to disfellowship such as noted here by Paul. At times point number 1 above is often naturally taken by the members of a congregation, until the outline of Matthew 18 is followed in dealing with the offender. Most of the time an offender such as here described will repent upon one or more persons lovingly correcting them for their lifestyle sin. If they do not repent after the first and second admonition, then the Church as a whole would have to take corrective action, even to the point of disfellowshipping them until repentance was forthcoming. THE CONCLUSION BY PAUL Whichever of the above views you want to take, Paul has only ONE conclusion: "Yet count him not as an ENEMY, but ADMONISH HIM AS A BROTHER." He is not to be shunned as you would an enemy - as you would someone who is out to kill you. The Greek word here used for enemy is echthros. Strong's Concordance says on this word: " from the prim. echtho (to hate); hateful (pass. odidus, or act. hostile); usually as a noun, an adversary (especially Satan): - enemy, foe." This Greek word is used as referring to the Devil in Mat.13:39. Christians are to get as far away from Satan - our enemy - and his works as possible. The brothers here noted by Paul are NOT to be counted as ENEMIES, but they are to be admonished - be worked with as BEING STILL (as the Amplified Bible puts it) a BROTHER! Now, those who hold that Paul is telling the Thessalonians to disfellowship such persons, and that excommunication means to avoid and never speak to that person, can hardly reconcile verse 15 with verse 14. It would then be plainly a contradiction. Again, we quote some pertinent passages from the Matthew Henry's Bible Commentary: "His commands and directions to the WHOLE CHURCH - regard, their behavior toward the disorderly persons who were among them......The directions of the apostle are carefully to be observed in this matter. We must be very cautious in Church censures and Church discipline. We must, FIRST, NOTE that man who is.......charged.......this is, we must have sufficient PROOF of his fault before we proceed further. We must, SECONDLY, admonish him in a friendly manner.......and this should be DONE PRIVATELY (Mat.18:15). Then, if he will not hear, we must, THIRDLY, WITHDRAW from him. That is, we must avoid FAMILIAR CONVERSE and society with such; for two reasons - namely, that we may not learn his evil ways (for he who follows vain and idle persons, and keeps company with such, is in danger of becoming like them). Another reason is - for the shaming and so the reforming, of them that offend: that when idle and disorderly persons see how their loose practices are disliked by all wise and good people, they may be ashamed of them, and walk more orderly. Love, therefore, to the persons of our offending brethren........should be the motive of our withdrawing from them; and yet those who are under the censure of the Church must not be ACCOUNTED AS ENEMIES (v.15)" (emphasis his and mine). There is, I venture to say, a great deal of truth in those comments of Matthew Henry. The THIRD TEXT as to what our attitude and work should be towards those who have either left the Church because of sin in their lives, or have been put out of its fellowship by the Church for their open unrepentant practice of sin, is found in James 5:19,20. The Amplified Bible reads: "(My) brethren, if anyone among you strays from the truth and falls into error, and another(person) BRINGS HIM BACK (to God), let the (latter) one be sure that whoever turns a sinner from his evil course will save (that one's) soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins (that is, procure the pardon of many sins committed by the convert)" (emphasis mine). Note carefully verse 19 - "BRETHREN, if any of YOU...." James is writing to converted Christians. He says that if any true Christian "err from the truth" - God's word is truth(John 17:17) and one who converts him brings him back to God's truth, many sins will have been forgiven. What kind of a person is James talking about? Is it just someone who has "slipped'' along life's Christian road? Or is it not someone who has known the truth, has lived in it, walked in it, practiced the true way as a lifestyle, but has now in the present TURNED AWAY, turned to living a life that is contrary to the commandments of the Lord? This person has rejected the truth. They had to know it before they could turn from it. They have chosen to practice a life of sin, living as the unconverted. The passage talks about the sinner being again converted from the error of his way - his life, his living, and being saved from death because he will again find mercy and his sins forgiven. Once you have become a truly converted person, your sins forgiven by the blood of Christ - once you have received God's Spirit and your heart and mind is wanting to do God's will, living by His every word, once you are in a constant attitude of humility and repentance, not wanting to sin but to live as God and Christ live, you are not under the death sentence but under the grace of God. Your mind set is to obey God, to say as Jesus said: "not my will be done but your(the Father's) will be done." You may slip up and fall at times, miss the mark and sin, but you are not deliberately and willfully rebelling against the way of the Lord, so you have passed from death to life, the second death can not touch you. The only way you can come under the sentence of death again is to set your mind to knowingly, deliberately, with clear intent and purpose, turn your back on the truths revealed to you, set your course to walk away from the pathway of righteousness, leave holding the hand of God, and walk in the lifestyle of Satan, the unconverted world and carnal human nature. This basic truth is what Paul spent so much time explaining to the Church at Rome in his letter to them (see Romans chapters three to eight). James is saying that if a Christian BRINGS BACK to God a brother, who has again become a slave to sin (has come under the sentence of death), he does a great work. He will be partly responsible for saving a sinner from death. The type of sinner here understood must be someone who has turned his back on God - left the Church and truths of the Lord; or someone whose life in the Church was such that the membership had no choice but to impose correction and censorship from their fellowship. Whichever the case, to CONVERT someone back to God requires a certain amount of contact! You will never bring a person back to the way of the Lord if you avoid them at all costs, never write or speak to them again. THE KIND OF DISFELLOWSHIPPING TAUGHT BY SOME RELIGIOUS ORGANIZATIONS CANNOT BE RECONCILED WITH THESE VERSES IN THE BOOK OF JAMES! WHAT JESUS REALLY TAUGHT "....... but if he neglect to hear the Church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican." This is what Jesus said in Mat.18:17. The RSV translates the last phrase as......"let him be to you as a gentile and a tax collector." A footnote in the LIVING BIBLE says: "Literally, 'let him be to you as the gentile and publican.' " THE JERUSALEM TEMPLE AT THE TIME OF CHRIST In the Zondervan Pictorial Bible Dictionary(page 835) we read this: "Entering the temple area one came to four successive walled courts, which surrounded the temple, each more exclusive than the one outside it. The first was the court of the GENTILES. It was not holy ground and non-Jews were permitted there. Here buying and selling went on; it was here that Jesus cleansed the temple (John 2:14-17). Within the court of the Gentiles were situated the Temple and Inner Courts, built on a platform 22 feet above the floor of the outer court. Stairways led up to this platform. A stone wall surrounded it, on which wall were placed stones with inscriptions in Greek and Latin FORBIDDING NON-JEWS FROM ENTERING ON PAIN OF DEATH. Several of these stones have been found " Most Bible Commentaries have taken Matthew 18:17, together with how the temple was constructed, regarding the keeping of Gentiles OUT of the temple area proper, to say that the Church does have the right to excommunicate undesirable persons (we have already seen what types of sins they would be openly practicing and promulgating) that would not repent of living in open sin. AND THIS IS TRUE - the CHURCH as a congregation, does have this power. Paul makes that plain in 1 Cor.5 regarding the man practicing incest. He told them, THEY, had the right to judge that matter (v.l-2) and put that person out of their fellowship (v.5-13). This they apparently did, as most commentators agree is thus stated in 2 Cor.2:5-8 (see the Amplified Bible). The punishment of disfellowshipping that person was of MANY, not just a few or of one man. The FIRST truth Jesus is giving is that the Church does have the authority to exercise excommunication as warranted. The SECOND truth is that only the CHURCH has this right. It was never given to only ONE man. The CHURCH as a collective local congregation of members is the only authority that can impose disfellowshipment on any person. Here we see checks and balances, and the acting out of the proverb that says, "in the multitude of counsellors there is safety." Here is what the Interpreter's Bible Commentary has to say in part on this: " This is one of the two passages in the gospels where the word CHURCH is used, and here it denotes the local congregation.......It is also clear that as yet in the average congregation there is NO OFFICIAL who wields FULL DISCIPLINARY POWER" (emphasis mine). Commenting as a whole on this passage in Matthew 18, the same commentary says: "....... Robert Louis Stevenson has written of our quarrels - ' With a little more patience and a little less temper, a gentler and wiser method might be found in almost every case.' Here Christian patience is described in gentleness and wisdom. A friend is to go to the offender, thus making the first advance. He is to point out the fault, but PRIVATELY and in lowly friendship. His purpose is not to humiliate or condemn, but to GAIN A BROTHER - to gain him for friendship and for the Church of Christ. Even if the private plea fails, the culprit is not to be branded publicly; but two or three men, chosen for Christian grace, are to be told of the failure, in order that their urgings may be added. Only if they fail is the WHOLE congregation to know; and even then they must not thrust the sinner from their comradeship except in his continued obduracy. We gain thus a glimpse into the problems of the early Church. There were, even then, careless and wayward members; and sometimes there was OPEN SCANDAL. The epistles confirm this picture " (emphasis mine). Now, let us ask ourselves: How did Jesus treat GENTILES and PUBLICANS? Did He completely avoid them? Did He never speak to a gentile or publican? Did Christ look upon them as enemies - to avoid at all costs? Jesus Christ is our EXAMPLE. We are to follow His steps (1 Peter 2:21). We can do no better than to see how He regarded the Gentile and tax collector. Jesus TALKED about salvation to a Samaritan woman (John 4:3-26). He SPOKE to, did good to a Gentile centurion (Matthew 8:5-13). He CONVERSED with a Gentile woman and healed her daughter (Mat.15:21-28). One of Jesus' 12 disciples was a tax collector - a publican (Mark 2:13). He at times ATE MEALS with publicans and sinners (Luke 5:29-32). Christ did NOT AVOID AT ALL COSTS the Gentile. He did at times have CONVERSATIONS with and do GOOD to the Gentile and publicans. Why, it is recorded that He was a FRIEND of publicans and sinners. He was not their ENEMY! This same Jesus said we were to LOVE and DO GOOD to even our enemies. Oh, how could we read these accounts of Jesus' friendship, conversing with and helping Gentiles and publicans, and then use Christ's own statement in Matthew 18:17 to say that He is there teaching a doctrine of "avoid completely, never talk or speak to a disfellowshipped member of the Church of God." HOW MISUNDERSTOOD HAS THAT STATEMENT BY JESUS BECOME TO SOME RELIGIOUS ORGANIZATIONS! The Gentiles in Christ's day were, as Paul put it: "At that time you were without Christ, being aliens from the commonwealth of Israel, and strangers from the covenant of promise, having no hope, and without God in the world" (Eph.2:12). In today's Christian language the Gentiles would have been called the "unconverted of the world." How are Christians to treat the unconverted? Are they to avoid them? Are they to shun them, never speak to them, never write to them? Paul gives us the answer: "I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators: yet NOT ALTOGETHER with the fornicators of THIS WORLD, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must you needs go out of this world" (1 Cor.5:9,10). A Christian must not COMPLETELY cut himself off to the people of this world - to the unconverted - or he would have to become a hermit dwelling in some cave in the earth. Jesus said that those who would not listen to the Church and repent, should be treated as the unconverted Gentile and publican. Paul was inspired to say that we should not cut ourselves off completely to the unconverted world. Obviously the company we should not keep with open rebellious sinners within the context of the Church of God, is a "buddy-buddy" relationship, where you spend hours with them just "shooting the breez"' or going to social functions with them, thus giving the impression to all that you allow their life-style of sin as no "big deal" and okay with God. This "company" keeping was going on by the members of the Church at Corinth towards the man guilty of practicing incest, so his open sin was not being rebuked. Maybe they thought that by showing grace to him, he would be redeemed out of his sin, but Paul was inspired to instruct that was not the way to handle the situation. Christ taught we were to be the LIGHT to the world. We were to do good to those who did us evil, to pray for those who despitefully used us, to LOVE our enemies. And those whom the Church had to discipline were to be looked upon as the Gentile - the unconverted. And the unconverted are prospective members of the family of God, if and when they repent; SO HOW MUCH MORE someone who has known the truth and way of God, but is for the moment taken by the wiles of Satan and sin. Are we just to forget about them, hang them out to dry and wither up to die? Some would teach so. Is that what Paul taught? He answers us with words concerning the man put out of the Church for incest: "But if someone (the one among you who committed incest) has caused (all this) grief and pain, he has caused it not to me, but in some measure, not to put it too severely (has distressed) all of you. For such a one this censure by the majority (which he has received is) sufficient (punishment). So, (instead of further rebuke now) you should rather turn and (graciously) forgive and comfort and encourage (him), to keep him from being overwhelmed by excessive sorrow and despair. I therefore beg you to reinstate him in your affections and assure him by your love for him" (2 Cor. 2:5-8 Amplified Bible). This does not sound like Paul is teaching any "avoid and never speak to" doctrine of disfellowshipping. It certainly does not sound like Paul had the attitude of "let him hang out, shrivel up and die." But it does show that AFTER the censorship by the MAJORITY has been applied to someone, the Church should do all it can to show him affection, encouragement, and assure him of their love. Oh, indeed, the teachings of Paul are not at variance with the greatest of all teachers, the one who said: "..... you pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have OMITTED the WEIGHTIER matter of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith; THESE OUGHT YOU TO HAVE DONE, and not to leave the other undone" (Mat.23:23). Some have seen that the Church has the power and authority to exercise censorship at times (though most do not understand for what and how it should be done) and do so, but OMIT the most important part of this law - LOVE! Love when applying it and the assurance of love after it is applied. You cannot show love if you NEVER speak or write to the disfellowshipped; or if you avoid them at all costs. The Spirit of the Lord inspired Paul to write: "If a man be overtaken in a fault, you which are spiritual, restore such an one....... count him not as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother." The Spirit of the Lord inspired James to say: "....he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death..." THE LOST SHEEP Jesus taught us the parable of the lost sheep - Luke 15:4-7. I will give you an explanation of this parable that is not the common one usually given, but an explanation that is backed up by an Old Testament prophecy. Sheep are often used as a type and representation of the righteous children of God, and goats as a type of the wicked or unconverted, see Matthew 25:31-46. The "sheep" then in Luke 15:4-6 are the righteous - the children of God, ones already filled with the Spirit of God. But some along the way get lost, wander away from the truth and the fold of the Church, they are overcome by Satan, and sin. Does the shepherd just forget about them or say he'll leave them alone until they find THEIR way back to the fold and THEN receive them? No! The shepherd goes to SEEK for them! So the Church is to patiently seek for those who have wandered away into open sin, to find and try to bring them back into the fold of God. The Church must speak to and communicate with the lost sheep. And what great rejoicing there is in heaven when just one sinner repents and returns to the fold. There is no teaching in this parable of letting the disfellowshipped or those who have turned again back into the world of habitual sin, just "wither up and die." But there is the example of LOVE, CONCERN, and a desire to FIND and SEEK the lost sheep. There is a prophecy in Ezekiel 34 that the Church of God needs to heed, needs to apply to the Church, needs to listen to and be correct by. The Church of God has not always in its history, understood correctly the doctrine of "Church Disfellowshipping" and so much harm as been the result. Some at times have been excommunicated when they should not have been, for the wrong reasons, performed in the wrong manner, with a hateful or holier than thou attitude. Many were left to dry up and die spiritually, without any thought given to restoring them. Shame on the Church of God! It is time to REPENT of such wrong doings and heed the warning of God from the mouth of Ezekiel. "Son of man, prophecy against the shepherds of Israel (the leaders of the Church of God, for our lesson) prophecy, and say unto them, thus says the Lord God unto the shepherds; woe be to the shepherds of Israel that do FEED THEMSELVES! Should not the shepherds feed the flock? The DISEASED have you not strengthened, neither have you HEALED that which was SICK, neither have you BOUND UP that which was BROKEN, neither have you BROUGHT AGAIN that which was DRIVEN AWAY, neither have you SOUGHT that which was LOST; but with force and with cruelty have you ruled them" (Ezekiel 34:2-4 emphasis mine). Truly, on this topic we have studied, the time is now when "he that has an ear to hear with, should hear." May all ministers and members of the Church work together to ensure that this doctrine of the word of the Lord is correctly taught and is not abused, so the Church of God can go forward in holiness unto the coming of our Savior Christ Jesus, Amen. ................. Written first in 1980. Slightly revised in 1995 To be continued with more in-depth study from the writings of Paul.
DISFELLOWSHIP !!
PART 2
by
Keith Hunt
DID PAUL CONTRADICT CHRIST?
A Christian is told by Paul not to "keep company........NO,
NOT TO EAT WITH" a brother who is a fornicator, covetous,
idolater, railer, drunkard, extortioner - 1 Cor.5:11. We have
discussed earlier the type of person who would be doing these
things(a person who practices openly, as a way of life with no
remorse or sorrow or attempt to overcome these practices) and
that the church may have no choice but to dis- fellowship them.
Yet, is Paul saying here that the church brethren should not
attempt to bring this person back to Christ and Godliness - that
they should never speak to or write to such a person in Christian
love and concern?
Let's look at what Paul said. He told the brethren "not to
keep company" but he did NOT SAY, "Do not keep company and NEVER
SPEAK to such brothers." He did not say, "NEVER WRITE to them."
He did not say, "You must leave them alone - neither write or
speak to them, even in an attempt to win them back to Christ."
OF COURSE HE DID NOT SAY THESE THINGS to the Corinthians,
because Paul KNEW we should endeavour to restore such persons to
the brotherhood of Christ. He wrote so, as we have seen in
Galatians 6:1 and 2 Thes.3:6,11,14-15. The apostle James also
taught this truth(James 5:19,20).
Paul did not contradict James or Christ.
Paul was telling the Corinthian Christians that they should
not have CLOSE FAMILIAR contact with such people. They were no
longer to be BUDDY - BUDDIES. They were not to associate with
them as they once did. They were not to SOCIALIZE with them -
attend parties, cookouts, weekend campouts, backyard barbecues.
The church was to censure them from its social functions,
picnics, dances, and feasts.
BUT NOWHERE in this verse or any other writings of Paul,
does he teach that the church is to treat these brothers or
sisters as ENEMIES - which must be shunned and never spoken to.
On the contrary, Paul taught Christian brethren to try to
win back the wayward brother, just as James taught, just as
Christ taught in the parable of the Lost Sheep. And just as God
inspired Ezekiel to write to the shepherds of Israel(Ezek.34).
To DO THIS will necessitate, AT TIMES, a certain amount of
speaking to, or writing to, the brother you want to see back in
the fold and true way of the Lord.
ROMANS 16:17-18
Paul says to MARK those which cause the church troubles and
avoid them. The Greek word for "mark" simply means - regard,
consider, take heed, look at. It is the same Greek word used in
Phil.3:17, where Paul tells us to MARK those who follow Christ
and use them as your example. The Greek word itself does NOT mean
"disfellowship."
Paul does say to AVOID them.
But HOW?
This instruction by Paul can be rightly taken in TWO ways.
1. Censorship WITHIN the church. Such troublemakers you will
soon discern by their spirit of dissention and division in
conversations and life style. They will be ever trying to divide
and destroy unity. From such Paul says WITHDRAW - stay out of
their way, do not be a buddy-buddy of theirs. Then, God willing,
they may come to see the error of their tongue and ways. Kind
loving correction will often solve the problem as others withdraw
from them.
2. Censorship OUTSIDE the church. The problem these
troublemakers bring may become so large and offensive to all the
members of the church that they may have(in order not to fall
into confusion and disarray) no choice but to put these people
out of its fellowship. If this be the case, then we are to avoid
them as previously stated under 1 Cor.5:11. But using love,
endeavour to bring them to the unity that is in Christ.
If the number 2 way be the only course of action left for
the church, HOW is it to be done?
We have already seen Christ's instruction in Mat.18. Does
Paul here say any differently? Does Paul here give the local
minister - one man - as many congregations only have one minister
or Elder - the right and authority to disfellowship these
persons? Does Paul say it is only the elders(plural) who have
this right? Did he say Peter or James or some HEAD apostle(who
claims headship and/or is put as head by others) only had this
authority?
Let us notice carefully what Paul said:
"Now I beseech YOU, BRETHREN. Mark them...."(verse 17).
He did NOT say: "I beseech you, minister" or "I beseech you,
elders" or "I beseech you head elder."
He said: ".....You, BRETHREN."
Yes, he addressed ALL the brethren to whom he was writing.
We read in chapter one, verse 7, that Paul was writing to ALL the
Christians at Rome; and he says this MARKING of certain ones must
be done by all.
The word of God does not contradict itself. Paul does not
oppose what Christ taught. If these verses are used to say we
must disfellowship those who cause divisions and walk contrary to
Christ, then it must be the BRETHREN(THE MAJORITY DECISION OF THE
CHURCH CONCERNED) WHO ARE TO EXERCISE THIS CENSORSHIP!
Not one man! Not one minister or elder! Not even a
collection of elders! It is the church as a WHOLE that have this
authority!
This is clearly what Christ taught, and this is what Paul
taught!
1 COR.16:22 "IF ANY MAN LOVE NOT THE LORD JESUS CHRIST LET
HIM BE ANATHEMA MARANATHA."
The Greek word for ANATHEMA is, as Strong's Concordance
says: "a (religious) ban or(concr.) excommunication(thing or
person) :- accursed, anathema, curse, x great."
The LIVING BIBLE translates: ".....That person is
cursed...." The RSV says: ".....Let him be accursed...."
The MODERN LANGUAGE renders it: ".....He shall be accursed...."
The one Greek word for the English "Let him be" is in the
PRESENT IMPERATIVE tense.
The present tense denotes action now going on or a state now
existing. The imperative denotes the mood of a verb that
expresses a command, request, or advice.
The Greek word is in the command, request or advice mood,
and in the present (not past or future) continuous tense.
How we translate the Greek word "anathema" will give us a
few alternatives as to how to understand what Paul is saying. If
we translate it as ACCURSED or CURSED, then we go with how the
LIVING BIBLE renders it: "....that person IS cursed."
Paul is giving advice. Those who do not love Christ are NOW
presently under a curse. To love Christ is to accept Him as your
saviour and keep His commandments. Then we are not under the
penalty of the law - death. We are not cursed to die as sinners,
but free from death to life. Those who do not love Christ(and His
word) are presently under a curse of death until they repent of
their sins and accept Christ as their saviour.
Those who once loved Christ but have made shipwreck their
faith, who now no longer love Jesus and His way of life, are
again presently cursed by the penalty of sin - death.
Paul is thus advising them that LOVE is the important thing.
To love Christ is to love what He taught, to love to obey Him,
to love to serve Him, love to follow in His steps. As Paul had
already said in chapter 13, though a person has great gifts and
deeds, if he did not have love it was to no avail. His gifts and
deeds would not save him without love. A true sincere humble
attitude and motivation towards Christ, and loving concern for
fellow man, is an essential for not being under the curse of
death.
If we translate "anathema" as meaning BAN or EXCOMMUNICATE,
then we stay with the KJV of "Let him be(advice, command - now
be, present action) anathema(banned, excommunicated).
So then we have another verse which would teach that the
church has power to censure certain individuals.
But nothing in this verse gives ONE man this right or
authority, not even a group of elders.
Nothing contradicts what Christ taught in Matthew 18:15-17
(or anything else Paul wrote) that the CHURCH(the collective
members as a whole) ONLY HAVE THIS POWER.
Who would be the ones so censured? Why, only those who do
not love Christ. The expression "love not" is in the present
tense. Paul is talking about persons who LOVE NOT Jesus as a
present continuous way of life. We have already seen the types of
persons and life styles that could come under "not loving the
Lord Jesus Christ."
Paul finishes by saying "Maranatha" - which is a Syriac
phrase, and signifies "THE LORD COMETH."
The very Lord they do not love, is coming - coming to
execute judgment, and to say to the wicked, those who will not
repent: "Depart from me you workers of iniquity." For if you
never come to love Christ you must be censured to the eternal
curse of eternal death.
GAL.5:10,12. "HE THAT TROUBLES YOU SHALL BEAR HIS JUDGMENT,
whosoever he be ...... I would they were even cut off which
trouble you."
Is there anything in these verses that gives ONE minister,
or a group of ministers, the power to excommunicate? Does Paul
say: "These troublemakers I will PERSONALLY disfellowship" or
"When I find out who these people are that trouble you, I will
put them out of the church" or "Find out who these persons are
and have your Elder/s disfellowship them." ?
No! There is nothing said to contradict what has been
already said by Jesus, that only the CHURCH as a whole has the
authority to disfellowship anyone. Paul did not even know WHO
these troublemakers were. He said they would bear their
punishment, "WHOSOEVER he be." And verse 12 should be better
translated from the Greek to read: "I wish those who unsettle and
confuse you would(go all the way and) CUT THEMSELVES
OFF"(Amplified Bible).
The INTERLINEAR GREEK-ENGLISH also gives the sense as Paul
WISHING that these troublemakers would cut THEMSELVES OFF. See
also the PHILLIPS translation.
If you wanted to stay with the translation of the KJV, at
best, Paul is only giving the churches of Galatia(the book was
written to churches of Galatia - chapter 1:2), his WISHES, his
desires, his advice - that the churches themselves would bear the
responsibility of ACTION.
This is the understanding taken by most Bible commentaries.
1 THES. 5:14. "NOW WE EXHORT YOU, BRETHREN, WARN THEM THAT
ARE UNRULY..."
Here Paul and others (now WE exhort) did not immediately
cast out those who were unruly, but told the brethren to warn
them. Paul obviously did not take it upon himself. He probably
did not even know who these unruly people were. He gave the
BRETHREN the power to warn them, which is exactly what Jesus
Christ Himself taught, as recorded in Matthew 18:17.
TITUS 3:10,11. "A MAN THAT IS AN HERETIC AFTER THE FIRST AND
SECOND ADMONITION, REJECT; knowing that he that is such is
subverted and sinneth, being condemned of himself."
The Greek for "heretic" used here denotes "to take for
oneself, a schismatic" (see Strong's Concordance). A person then
who causes DIVISION, who has a mind set on dividing, whose
purpose and aim is to divide and conquer. The Greek for
"subverted" is correctly translated PERVERT. The Greek word for
"sinneth" is in the present tense.
The men(could be a Christian brother or could be just an
outsider wanting to cause trouble) here spoken of are HABITUAL
sinners. They live a life style of this sin. They are perverted
as a present continuous action in this sin. What is their sin?
Why, constantly working to disunite and divide the church.
These verses and Romans 16:17-18 are related.
Notice! Paul is teaching Titus exactly the same thing as
Christ taught His disciples - one admonition, two admonitions,
third admonition (by the whole church - Mat.18:17) - reject.
There is no conflict between Paul and Christ - only HARMONY!
1 TIM. 6:3-5. "IF ANY MAN TEACH OTHERWISE, AND consent not
to wholesome words, even the words of our Lord Jesus Christ, and
to the doctrine which is according to Godliness, he is proud -
knowing nothing - but doting about questions and strifes of
words, whereof comes envy, strife, railings, evil surmisings,
perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds and destitute of the
truth, supposing that gain is Godliness. FROM SUCH WITHDRAW
YOURSELF."
It should be evident from the plain language Paul uses here
as to the character and lifestyle of the people here described.
It does NOT describe a person who loves God and his fellow man
with sincerity and humility, but has a few differences of opinion
on church administration, policy or understanding of some Bible
verses.
The person Paul describes is DESTITUTE OF THE TRUTH! These
refuse God'sword and will not live by it!
What does Paul say to Timothy(a minister of God)? Does he
tell him to use his PERSONAL authority to cast them out of the
church - to disfellowship them? Does Paul instruct Timothy to
get some other ministers and together censure these people? Does
he tell Timothy to go to a higher ranking elder(maybe Peter,
James, or Paul himself) with their names and evil deeds, and
obtain authority from them to excommunicate these fellows?
No! He tells Timothy none of these things. He does tell
him to do a PERSONAL thing, something all true followers of
Christ should do. When confronted with these types of
individuals - FROM SUCH WITHDRAW YOURSELF! Do not be a buddy of
theirs. Stay out of their way. Don't be a close friend of such
persons.
Such people here described by Paul to Timothy may very well
come under the verses of Romans 16:17-18 and Titus 3:10,11. And
so the instructions of Matthew 18:15- 17 would need apply.
1 TIM.5:19,20. "AGAINST AN ELDER RECEIVE NOT AN ACCUSATION,
BUT BEFORE TWO OR THREE WITNESSES. THEM THAT SIN REBUKE BEFORE
ALL, THAT OTHERS ALSO MAY FEAR."
If Timothy did not have any PERSONAL power to disfellowship
anyone, then what authority did he have in regard to other
ministers or elders?
The letters to Timothy are known as PASTORAL letters -
instructions to a minister or elder.
It is evident from these verses that an elder can act as a
mediator between problems within the eldership itself and that of
the membership of the church.
Paul was instructed by Christ. He knew the teachings of
Jesus as given in Mat.18:15-17. Paul would have instructed
Timothy likewise. If a minister had aught against another
minister he should go to him alone and try to solve the problem.
If that doesn't work, then two or three can go together to the
one involved in the dispute. Now, if no satisfaction can be
reached between these ministers, then Paul would ADD ONE MORE
STEP to be taken in eldership problems: bring in a MEDIATOR.
Paul is instructing Timothy that he should not be a mediator in
eldership problems until the first TWO STEPS of Matthew 18 have
been taken.
If it is a member of the church having a problem with an
elder, then the same rule of Matthew 18 still applies - personal
talk first to try and solve the problem, then if not rectified,
two or three go to the elder involved. If still no satisfaction,
then another elder/s brought in to mediate.
If the Elder is in the wrong, does Paul then say Timothy had
the power to "disfellowship" or "cast out" or "excommunicate"
these sinning ministers? No! All the PERSONAL authority that
Timothy is given is to REBUKE the sinning minister before all -
to rebuke those who are clearly to be blamed and will not repent.
This is the power that is given to the servants of God - a power
that Paul himself had to use against Peter when Peter was clearly
and obviously in the wrong for racial prejudice at one time in
his life(see Gal.2:11-14).
If the Elder would continue in the sin with no repentance
then the final actions of Mat.18 would need be applied by the
whole church - disfellowship.
Nothing here in 1 Tim 5. gives any minister the personal
power to mark and disfellowship another minister.
1 TIM.1:19-20. "Holding faith, and a good conscience; which
some having put away concerning faith have made shipwreck: of
whom is Hymenaeus and Alexander; whom I have delivered unto
Satan, that they may learn not to blaspheme."
Here at last (some will say) we have a passage which says
Paul himself PERSONALLY marked and cast out of the church two
individuals.
If this is so, then truly we have found a contradiction in
the scriptures. But Christ said the scriptures CAN NOT BE BROKEN!
God does not contradict Himself! So let us carefully and humbly
search for the truth as to what Paul is saying here. Remember
also what Peter said about some of the writings of Paul(2 Peter
3:16).
Paul is talking in verse 19 about individuals who have CAST
OFF or REJECTED (as the Greek word for "having put away"
signifies) THE faith (the word "the" is in the original Greek,
see the Greek-English NT by Berry). They had turned away from
Christ, from following in His steps. These two named individuals
had made ship wreck their faith in Christ. The tense for the
Greek word translated in English as "have made shipwreck" is in
the AORIST INDICATIVE, which signifies an action taken in the
PAST.
Paul says SOME(even more than those named) - indicating that
they, of their OWN will and determination, have already(at some
point in the past) cast away the faith - no longer walking with
Christ. Paul does not say that he himself cast away their faith
by putting them out of the church. He does not say that he
"marked" and disfellowshipped them and by so doing has caused
their faith to be broken and rejected. After all, can ANY MAN by
his decree nullify your faith - claim you are no longer a child
of God? Or is it YOU ONLY, by your own mind and life, who can
terminate your relationship with God and Christ?
These people of their OWN SELVES - their own deliberate,
willful determination, decided to turn the other way and no
longer follow the faith of Jesus. They were not "put out" by some
MAN. They turned away from Christ by their OWN choosing.
The MATTHEW HENRY COMMENTARY says: "As for those who had
made shipwreck of the faith - he specifies two.....who had made a
profession of the Christian religion, but had quitted that
profession."
Now let us study verse 20.
Paul singles out two individuals who had quit the faith. As
this letter is written to a minister, it would not be wrong to
deduct that the two men named were also ministers, and were well
known by Paul and Timothy, hence he mentions them by name.
The Greek for "I have delivered" is in the first person
singular aorist indicative. Here is what the ANALYTICAL GREEK
LEXICON says about the aorist tense: "The Aorist is strictly the
expression of a momentary or transient single action.....and in
the indicative mood it ordinarily signifies past time. It is,
however, used of a prolonged action, if there is no positive need
to make a direct expression of the circumstance. It is thus of
constant use in the narrative of past transactions."
We could paraphrase this statement by Paul to read:
"I personally on an occasion in the past delivered them over
to Satan."
The tense of the word is a single action done in the past.
But what about the MEANING of this Greek word?
Strong's Concordance says: "To surrender, yield up, entrust,
transmit, betray, bring forth, cast, commit, deliver, give,
hazard, put in prison, recommend."
Matthew Henry comments: "Paul had delivered them to Satan,
and DECLARED them to belong to the Kingdom of Satan."
Paraphrased, we could render this: "Whom I have entrusted,
committed - RECOMMENDED to Satan."
Does this action of Paul - recommending someone to the power
of Satan, seem UN-Christian? We must remember that God does
chasten every son He loves(Heb.12:3- 11). And He may, if He
chooses, use the power of the Satanic world to fulfil His
purpose. God did use and allow Satan to bring much trouble on Job
in order to humble him to real repentance.
Paul is not out of order in asking God to deliver these two
men(he knew as one time servants in the work of the Lord) over to
Satan and his power. Why? Paul goes on to tell us: "That they
may be DISCIPLINED(as the Greek is better translated) not to
blaspheme."
He wanted them to come back to the faith - to repent - to
walk again with God. So, even in this Paul shows CONCERN and
LOVE.
Paul knew and obeyed the teaching of Christ, to LOVE your
enemies, PRAY for and do GOOD to those who persecute,
despitefully use, and hate you. Paul prayed now that these two
men who had left the faith and were now a part of Satan's world,
would be disciplined by the evil that Satan could bring upon them
so they would again be restored - converted back to God and the
faith of Christ.
A HUMAN MAN - HEAD AND DECISION MAKER OF THE CHURCH?
Some teach that Peter was made head of the church by Christ.
Others say that the true church today is headed by one man who is
able to make binding decisions, even to the casting out of the
church those he will.
Those who teach this idea use Matthew 16:18-19 to give proof
to the supremacy of ONE authoritarian man as head of the church.
But what is the real truth? Let us examine these verses
very closely.
Jesus said: "And I say unto you, that you are Peter(Greek
word - petros; meaning a "stone"), and upon this rock(Greek word
- petra; meaning a "ledge" or "shelf of rock" or "huge boulder")
I will build my church (Mat.16:18).
Now, since some claim that the rock on which the church was
founded refers to Peter - and not Christ - notice the true
meaning, as originally written by Matthew in the Greek language.
Peter was also called Cephas(Greek Kephas - from the Aramaic
Kepha). In John 1:40-42 it is related how Andrew(Simon Peter's
brother) found Peter and brought him to Jesus.
"And when Jesus beheld him he said: You are Simon, the son
of Jona. You shall be called Cephas, which is by interpretation,
a stone"(verse 42).
The English word "stone" is translated from the Greek word
petros, meaning a single stone or loose stone. Also the Greek
word "kephas" means such a stone, and Jesus used it when
referring to a human man - Peter.
But when Jesus said: "upon this rock I will build my church"
the Greek word, as written by Matthew, was neither kephas or
petros, but P E T R A - which means a LARGE MASSIVE ROCK!
The Greek PETRA can not mean the human Peter, but the
glorified Christ! Speaking of the Israelites under Moses in the
wilderness, Paul wrote: "....For they drank of that spiritual
rock that followed them; and THAT ROCK WAS CHRIST"(1 Cor.10:4).
The church is described in Ephesians 2:20 as "being built
upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets(including Old
Testament prophets), JESUS CHRIST HIMSELF BEING THE CHIEF
CORNERSTONE."
Here Christ is plainly said to be the chief, or the HEAD!
The real foundation of the church is Christ. "For other
foundations can no man lay than that is laid, which is JESUS
CHRIST"(1 Cor.3:11).
He is shown in Revelation 1:13,18, to be the living HEAD,
spiritually in the midst of the church.
Read it also in Eph.5:23; 4:15; 1:22-23; Col.1:18,19; 2:19.
Now, what about Peter being given the power to make BINDING
DECISIONS for the church? Was he given authority to decide
DOCTRINE - the change of doctrine - make binding decisions as to
what the church members were to read, who to listen to, who was
to be IN the church or who was to be CAST out?
The AMPLIFIED BIBLE translates Matthew 16:19 as follows:
"I will give you the keys of the Kingdom of Heaven, and
whatever you bind(that is, declare to be improper, and unlawful)
- on earth MUST BE ALREADY BOUND IN HEAVEN; and whatever you
loose on earth(declare lawful) MUST BE WHAT IS ALREADY LOOSED IN
HEAVEN" (emphasis mine).
A footnote gives you the reason why the compilers of the
Amplified Bible so translates verse 19. "Williams:'perfect
passive participle; so things in a state of having been already
forbidden(or permitted)."
The ANALYTICAL GREEK LEXICON says this: "The PERFECT
conveys the double notion of an action terminated in the past
time, and of its effects existing in the present."
So, contrary to popular teaching, Christ was NOT telling
Peter that he would be the head of the church with power to
decide great issues and make binding proclamations on the
brethren, BUT that HE, Christ, would be the foundation and head
of the church, and that Peter or any other disciple, minister,
elder, apostle, prophet, teacher, could only bind or unbind on
the brethren that which God had already declared to be lawful or
unlawful.
And how can anyone know what God has made lawful or not?
Why, only by a study of God's revelation to man - the BIBLE!
God does not leave man to decide for himself what is right
or what is wrong, what are the true doctrines of God, what
practices and customs to observe. What is SIN, and what is
RIGHTEOUSNESS. He does not leave mankind without instruction on
the LARGE, IMPORTANT issues of life. Such doctrines as "church
government" or the doctrine about "church disfellowshipping" and
how to settle disputes among brethren are all plainly revealed to
us in the word of truth - the Bible.
Man, woman, elders, deacons, can only search the scriptures
to find out what God has already laid down as to the truth of the
matter on these and other subjects that are given to us to
understand.
Christ was telling Peter that he did NOT have the authority
to rule the church with an iron hand or bind things of his OWN
choosing on the people of God.
CAN A GROUP OF MINISTERS MAKE BINDING DECISION?
If ONE man was not given this power to make binding
decisions, then surely a GROUP of God's servants can do so, is
what some will argue, giving Matthew 18:18 as proof. And so the
Roman Catholic church has, to name one organization, used this
teaching to establish Sunday, the first day of the week, in place
of the 7th. Also , it has been used to establish Christ-mass,
Easter, and other festivals from paganism, to dogmatize celibacy,
to prohibit the use of contraceptives in marriage, and other
doctrines.
Can a group of men therefore decide to ADD to doctrine,
change doctrine, or make up doctrines and BIND THEM on the rest
of the church? Can a group of ministers get together and decide
WHO can be in the church or who they can throw out? Can some
elders decide to disfellowship another elder?
The AMPLIFIED BIBLE translates Matthew 18:18 as:
"Truly, I tell you, whatever you forbid and declare to be
improper and unlawful on earth must be what is already forbidden
in Heaven; and whatever you permit and declare proper and lawful
on earth must be already permitted in Heaven."
The GREEK TENSE is again perfect passive - just as in
chapter 16:19.
Surely, there are many decisions to be made as far as
administration, evangelism, spreading of the gospel via print and
TV etc., youth activities, church socials, office supplies, and
other day to day things in the life of a church. BUT binding laws
can only come from God - for only God is the lawgiver - James
4:12.
All that man can do is humbly and diligently search the word
of the Lord to find what He has made lawful or unlawful.
There is a certain area where elders do have some authority
regarding people and sins.
After Jesus was resurrected He appeared to His disciples and
in the context of the Holy Spirit, He said to them: "Whose soever
sins you remit, they are remitted unto them, and whose soever
sins you retain they are retained"(John 20:23).
One clear area God's servants must use this power and
judgment is when an elder is counselling someone for baptism.
Room does not permit me to go into this subject of water baptism
here, needless to say it is a very important topic in the New
Testament. I have written on it in detail for those who want to
request the study.
Water Baptism is a serious undertaking, with great spiritual
meaning. A minister/saint must be sure(as sure as an elder/saint
can be with the Spirit of God, allowing that he is still human
and can not see the depths of the heart) the person requesting
baptism is in an attitude of repentance and wanting to turn away
from sin. Usually through a number of counselling sessions an
elder or elders or saints can ascertain if someone is ready to
truly yield and follow in the steps of Christ.
I have known some situations where the person was wanting
baptism only because their friend was going to be baptized, or
their mate was ready for baptism but they were not really
repentant or wanting to forsake sin. So the elders/saints refused
to baptize them, and in so doing their sins were retained until
they fully came to know what accepting Christ as their personal
saviour was in truth and righteousness.
There are, now and again, circumstances where an individual
comes in contact with the church, wants some of the things that
the church can offer, desires to have some of the great blessings
and gifts that come by being a true member of the true church,
yet their attitude of heart is FAR from the true God and His way
of life. Elders will often be able to see the truth of the matter
and may have to finally rebuke or correct such an attitude in
those persons.
We have an example in the NT during the life of the apostles
Peter and John. It is found in Acts chapter 8, and beginning with
verse 14.
Let me comment on verse 13 first. Simon it is said
"believed" and was "baptized." His real deep attitude of heart
was soon to be manifested. The leaders and elders in the
church are human, and can from time to time be fooled by some
people who look and sound and act for a while as if they are
truly converted. But time and situations prove otherwise.
Simon became a follower of "the work." Looking and wondering
at all the things being done - the miracles and signs.
Now starting in verse 14, Simon begins to see one way in
which people receive the Holy Spirit.
He offers the apostles money to buy this gift of being able
to give the Spirit to others. His attitude was ALL WRONG! He
wanted to use the Holy Spirit for his own ends, to feather his
own nest and fame. Peter could see through Simon's glass house
and paper walls.
Look at the words from Peter,verses 20 through to 23!
Simon's heart was FAR from the righteousness and purity of
God. Peter could see it and responded accordingly. Simon's sins
were RETAINED, and could only be blotted out from the record by
true humble repentance.
So, the servant's of the Lord do have some power, some
authority, when it comes to sin, but this is a separate and
different subject than the topic we are studying in this
exposition.
Nothing is stated in Acts 8 that Simon was disfellowshipped
by Peter or John, both of them or any group of persons. Peter
tells Simon his sin and admonishes him to repent. We are given no
further information about Simon, his attitude after this incident
- nothing - the NT is silent on the matter.
The elders of the church do have some authority in matters
of sin as we have seen. They also have authority in some other
areas. Please read Matthew the 10th chapter and Luke chapter 10.
You will find the disciples called and sent forth to preach
and teach the word of God given authority or power over a number
of things, but not one or a collection of them as leaders and
elders, are given power/authority to cast out of the church
anyone - to disfellowship!
As stated before in this study, the elders are PART OF the
church, but are NOT "the church" that Jesus said only had the
power to disfellowship(Mat.18:17). The elders can be part of the
body of believers, part of the process, leading to someone being
disfellowshipped, but only a part, not the whole.
A SERIOUS MATTER
For the church to disfellowship anyone is a serious
undertaking. It should be done only when all else has failed, and
they had better make sure, with fear and trembling, that God's
word justifies their decision. For the Eternal God will
".....have judgment without mercy, that has shown no mercy; and
mercy rejoices against judgment"(James 2:13). So the church had
better speak and DO as, ".....They that shall be judged by the
law of liberty"(James 2:12).
The Church of God should be filled with the fruits of God's
Spirit, which are: "....LOVE, joy(gladness), peace, PATIENCE(an
even temper, forbearance), kindness, goodness, self-control
(self-restraint, continence)......" (Galatians 5:22,23, Amplified
Bible).
Let us show love, patience, tolerance, to our fellow man.
Let us give the "benefit of the doubt" to our brother.
For love, ".....is not easily provoked, thinks no evil....."
and ".....is ready to believe the best of every person...." (KJV
and Amplified Bible - 1 Cor.13:5,7).
Let the members of the Church of God get on their knees, and
pray that the church will never have to exercise its power and
authority to disfellowship anyone!
....................
Written first in 1980. Slightly revised in 1995.
Footnote
It was after the first writing of this study that I became
personally familiar with a number of church organizations that
employed in practice the truths given in the word of the Lord
regarding the doctrine of disfellowshipping an unrepentant
sinner. One such church organization was the Seventh Day
Adventist church. In learning from them how they went about
applying Matthew 18:15-17, I was pleasantly surprised to find it
was as written in this study of mine.
The eventual decision to disfellowship a person from their
church is made by the WHOLE membership of that particular
congregation involved. Only the actual members of that
congregation have voting power - no outside members of another
congregation, no visiting members from another congregation, can
participate in the judging and decision.
Such an event is very rare in the SDA churches,and is taken
very seriously, with much soul searching, deep sorrow, with
spiritual pain and even heartfelt literal crying on the part of
many. It brings the whole congregation very close together in
humility.
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